{"id":1224,"date":"2025-09-22T20:52:54","date_gmt":"2025-09-22T20:52:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=1224"},"modified":"2025-09-22T20:53:09","modified_gmt":"2025-09-22T20:53:09","slug":"o-geceyi-anlatti-esim-beni-hergun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/o-geceyi-anlatti-esim-beni-hergun\/","title":{"rendered":"O geceyi Anlatt\u0131.. E\u015fim Beni Herg\u00fcn"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a> E\u015fim Beni Herg\u00fcn.14 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendirilen bir di\u011fer \u00e7ocuk gelin ise e\u015finin \u00e7ok naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekti\u011fini ifade ederek \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131yor: \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumu ya\u015famad\u0131m. Ben \u00e7ok okumak istedim, derslerim \u00e7ok iyiydi. Ortaokul d\u00f6neminde babam okutmak istemedi. Okuyamamak benim amac\u0131yla en b\u00fcy\u00fck ezikliktir, eksikliktir. Evlenece\u011fimi ilk duydu\u011fumda \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Ekim ay\u0131nda d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131na ba\u015fland\u0131. Geceyi day\u0131m\u0131n evinde ge\u00e7irdim. Burada banyom yap\u0131ld\u0131. Daha sonra\u2026
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\nal\u0131p, konvoy ile e\u015f g\u00fcd\u00fcml\u00fc k\u00f6ye g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcler. O g\u00fcn g’er’dek gecesine girdik. G’er’de’\u011fe dair kimse bilgi vermemi\u015fti ama e\u015fim \u00e7ok anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131. Evlendikten birka\u00e7 ay sonra h’amile kald\u0131m. On yedi ya\u015f\u0131nda ilk \u00e7ocu\u011fumu do’\u011furdum ama \u00e7ok zor geldi. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcks\u00fcn, uykun geliyor o \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l bakacaks\u0131n. Bir iki saat bakard\u0131m, ba\u015flard\u0131m a\u011flamaya. E\u015fim kalkard\u0131, o bakard\u0131, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131. B\u00dcLENT \u015eANLIKAN \u2013 METE YILMAZ Van\u2019\u0131n \u00c7atak \u0130l\u00e7esi\u2019nden 2,5 sene evvelce Siirt\u2019in Pervari \u0130l\u00e7esi Yapraktepe K\u00f6y\u00fc\u2019ne \u201cberdel\u201d usul\u00fcyle gelin giden 14 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Kader Erten\u2019in silahla \u00f6’l’d\u00fcr\u00fclmesi g\u00f6zleri gene \u00e7ocuk gelinlere \u00e7evirdi.<\/p>\n

ABD\u2019de Cleveland\u2019da bir \u015fiddeti engelleme merkezinde 3 sene \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapan Adli T\u0131p Kurumu Eski Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Prof. Dr. O\u011fuz Polat ve ekip arkada\u015flar\u0131 Van Y\u00fcz\u00fcnc\u00fc Y\u0131l \u00dcniversitesi Sosyoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u2019nden Ara\u015ft\u0131rma G\u00f6revlisi Sabahat \u00d6l\u00e7er ile \u00f6\u011fretim g\u00f6revlisi Beg\u00fcm Kocamaz, Van\u2019\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fik mahallelerinde ya\u015fam s\u00fcrd\u00fcren \u00e7ocuk gelinleri ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. 57 g\u00fcnde tamamlanan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma neticesinde \u00e7ocuk gelinlerin hikayeleri derlendi. Polat, hikayelerin geli\u015fen vakitlarda kitapla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u0130\u015fte kimlikleri sakl\u0131 tutulan ilk kez AK\u015eAM\u2019\u0131n duyurdu\u011fu o \u00e7ocuk gelin \u00f6yk\u00fcleri: \u201cK\u00f6yde ya\u015fad\u0131k, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Akraba evlili\u011fi yapt\u0131m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E\u015fim Beni Herg\u00fcn.14 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendirilen bir di\u011fer \u00e7ocuk gelin ise e\u015finin \u00e7ok naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekti\u011fini ifade ederek \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131yor: \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumu ya\u015famad\u0131m. Ben \u00e7ok okumak istedim, derslerim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1226,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1224"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1228,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1224\/revisions\/1228"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1226"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}