{"id":3694,"date":"2025-12-14T16:39:58","date_gmt":"2025-12-14T16:39:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=3694"},"modified":"2025-12-14T16:40:09","modified_gmt":"2025-12-14T16:40:09","slug":"ikizlerden-sonra-evliligimin-gercek-yuzunu-gordum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/ikizlerden-sonra-evliligimin-gercek-yuzunu-gordum\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130kizlerden Sonra Evlili\u011fimin Ger\u00e7ek Y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc G\u00f6rd\u00fcm"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Bu i\u00e7erik, ger\u00e7ek hayatta ya\u015fanan deneyimlerden ilham al\u0131narak haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Benim ad\u0131m Aylin<\/strong>, 35 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m.
Uzun y\u0131llar boyunca m\u00fckemmel bir evlili\u011fim oldu\u011funa<\/strong> inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n

E\u015fim Fuat\u2019la hayat\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131rdan kurduk. Param\u0131z azd\u0131 ama g\u00fcvenimiz tamd\u0131.
K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir aile i\u015fletmemiz vard\u0131; ben m\u00fc\u015fteri ili\u015fkileri ve muhasebeyle ilgilenir, Fuat sahada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Ak\u015famlar\u0131 yorgun ama mutlu d\u00f6ner, koltu\u011fa oturup d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan yemek s\u00f6ylerdik.
Ger\u00e7ekten bir tak\u0131md\u0131k.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir ak\u015fam salonumuza bak\u0131p g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemi\u015fti.
\u201cBir g\u00fcn burada \u00e7ocuklar ko\u015facak,\u201d demi\u015fti.
\u201cSab\u0131rs\u0131zlan\u0131yorum,\u201d diye kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

Hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimizde mutluluktan havalara u\u00e7tuk.
Ultrasonda ikiz<\/strong> bekledi\u011fimizi \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimizde Fuat sevin\u00e7ten yerinden f\u0131rlad\u0131.
O g\u00fcn herkesi arad\u0131. Baba olman\u0131n gururunu anlat\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Hamileli\u011fim boyunca ilgiliydi.
Bebek kitaplar\u0131 okudu, be\u015fikler kurdu, gece karn\u0131mla konu\u015ftu.
Kendimi g\u00fcvende ve sevilmi\u015f hissediyordum.<\/p>\n

Ama do\u011fum<\/strong>, her \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

18 saat s\u00fcren sanc\u0131dan sonra tansiyonum tehlikeli seviyeye \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve acil sezaryen<\/strong> karar\u0131 al\u0131nd\u0131.
Ameliyathanede parlak \u0131\u015f\u0131klar, makinelerin sesleri ve korku vard\u0131.
Fuat elimi tutuyordu ama g\u00f6zlerindeki endi\u015feyi unutamam.<\/p>\n

\u0130kizlerimiz Elif ve Emir<\/strong> sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 do\u011fdu.
O an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m rahatlama tarif edilemezdi.
Ama as\u0131l zorluk do\u011fumdan sonra<\/strong> ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Sezaryen basit bir do\u011fum de\u011fildir; b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ameliyatt\u0131r.
Haftalarca do\u011frulmak, e\u011filmek, hatta g\u00fclmek bile ac\u0131 vericiydi.
Buna bir de iki yeni do\u011fmu\u015f bebek eklenmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki saatte bir beslenme, alt de\u011fi\u015ftirme, gaz \u00e7\u0131karma\u2026
Geceler ve g\u00fcnd\u00fczler birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u0130lk g\u00fcnlerde Fuat anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131.
\u201cDinlen,\u201d diyordu.<\/p>\n

Ama bu \u00e7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

Bir hafta sonra eve girip etrafa bakt\u0131.
\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn evdesin, toparlayamad\u0131n m\u0131?\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Sonra yemek konusu ba\u015flad\u0131.
\u201cYine mi haz\u0131r yemek?\u201d
\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn ne yap\u0131yorsun?\u201d<\/p>\n

Bu soru i\u00e7imi par\u00e7alad\u0131<\/strong>.
G\u00fcnlerim uykusuzluk, a\u011fr\u0131 ve a\u011flayan iki bebek aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7iyordu.
Ama anlatacak g\u00fcc\u00fcm yoktu.
Susmay\u0131 se\u00e7tim.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele\u015ftiriler artt\u0131.
Ev, yemek, temizlik\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201cBen \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, sen evdesin,\u201d demeye ba\u015flad\u0131.
\u201cAnnem d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc,\u201d dedi bir g\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Ameliyat yerim h\u00e2l\u00e2 a\u011fr\u0131yordu.
Uykusuzluktan t\u00fckenmi\u015ftim.
Ama bunlar onun i\u00e7in bahane<\/strong> gibiydi.<\/p>\n

Ve bir gece s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bir c\u00fcmle, i\u00e7imdeki son par\u00e7ay\u0131 da k\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

O an anlad\u0131m:
\u0130kizlerden sonra de\u011fi\u015fen ben de\u011fil<\/strong>,
evlili\u011fimin ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcyd\u00fc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bu i\u00e7erik, ger\u00e7ek hayatta ya\u015fanan deneyimlerden ilham al\u0131narak haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Benim ad\u0131m Aylin, 35 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m.Uzun y\u0131llar boyunca m\u00fckemmel bir evlili\u011fim oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. E\u015fim Fuat\u2019la hayat\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131rdan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3696,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3694","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3694"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3694\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3698,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3694\/revisions\/3698"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}