{"id":4379,"date":"2025-12-30T19:41:11","date_gmt":"2025-12-30T19:41:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=4379"},"modified":"2025-12-30T19:41:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-30T19:41:27","slug":"kocam-beni-yol-kenarinda-birakip-gitti-ama-bir-park-bankindaki-yasli-kadin-her-seyi-degistirdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/kocam-beni-yol-kenarinda-birakip-gitti-ama-bir-park-bankindaki-yasli-kadin-her-seyi-degistirdi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kocam Beni Yol Kenar\u0131nda B\u0131rak\u0131p Gitti\u2026 Ama Bir Park Bank\u0131ndaki Ya\u015fl\u0131 Kad\u0131n Her \u015eeyi De\u011fi\u015ftirdi"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Kocamla hararetli bir tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ard\u0131ndan, beni evden yakla\u015f\u0131k 50 kilometre uzakta yol kenar\u0131nda b\u0131rak\u0131p gitti<\/strong>. Ne telefonum vard\u0131, ne c\u00fczdan\u0131m\u2026 Sadece arkas\u0131ndan yank\u0131lanan \u015fu s\u00f6zleri hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum:
\u201cEve nas\u0131l d\u00f6nece\u011fine bakal\u0131m!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Araba g\u00f6zden kayboldu\u011funda kald\u0131r\u0131mda tek ba\u015f\u0131mayd\u0131m. Panik, utan\u00e7 ve korku i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7mi\u015fti. Yak\u0131ndaki bir parkta, eski bir bankta oturup a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. O an, hayat\u0131m\u0131n en yaln\u0131z an\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ama bank\u0131n di\u011fer ucunda oturan ya\u015fl\u0131 bir kad\u0131n<\/strong>, her \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirecek c\u00fcmleyi kurdu:
\u201cA\u011flamay\u0131 kes. G\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi \u00e7\u00f6zmez. Bug\u00fcn onun pi\u015fman olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister misin?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ne demek istedi\u011fini anlayamadan, uzaktan siyah bir l\u00fcks sedan yakla\u015ft\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n

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Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n bastonuna yaslanarak aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131. Bana f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131:
\u201cTorunum gibi davran. K\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ol ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc dur.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Araban\u0131n arka kap\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Tak\u0131m elbiseli, ciddi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcml\u00fc bir adam indi.
\u201cBabaanne, seni her yerde arad\u0131k. \u0130yi misin?<\/strong>\u201d dedi tela\u015fla.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n bir anda rol\u00fcne girdi. Sesi titredi, eliyle beni i\u015faret etti:
\u201cTorunum bug\u00fcn \u00e7ok zor bir \u015fey ya\u015fad\u0131.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adam bana d\u00f6nd\u00fc. Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade de\u011fi\u015fti.
\u201cNe oldu?\u201d diye sordu.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n sakince konu\u015ftu:
\u201cKocas\u0131 onu yol kenar\u0131nda b\u0131rak\u0131p gitti. Paras\u0131z, telefonsuz. Bir ba\u015f\u0131na.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

O an anlad\u0131m: Bu kad\u0131n s\u0131radan biri de\u011fildi.<\/strong>
Adam ceketini omuzlar\u0131ma b\u0131rakt\u0131.
\u201c\u00dc\u015f\u00fcyor musun?\u201d dedi.
Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 sallad\u0131m. \u00dc\u015f\u00fcyordum\u2026 Ama sadece so\u011fuktan de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Arabaya bindik. Bana her \u015feyi anlatmam\u0131 istediler. Tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar\u0131, terk edili\u015fimi\u2026 \u0130lk kez biri yarg\u0131lamadan dinliyordu<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini kapat\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle dedi:
\u201cBaz\u0131 adamlar g\u00fcc\u00fc kontrol san\u0131r. As\u0131l g\u00fc\u00e7, sonu\u00e7larla y\u00fczle\u015febilmektir.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7antas\u0131ndan telefonu \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p bir numara \u00e7evirdi:
\u201cKemal\u2026 Bir plaka yaz\u0131yorum. Bu adam\u0131 bul.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yar\u0131m saat sonra b\u00fcy\u00fck, \u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 bir binaya geldik. Me\u011fer bu ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n, b\u00f6lgede s\u00f6z\u00fc ge\u00e7en, hay\u0131r i\u015fleriyle tan\u0131nan bir ailenin b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcym\u00fc\u015f. \u201cTorunu\u201d dedi\u011fi adam ise bir avukatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Telefon tekrar \u00e7ald\u0131.
\u201cBulundu,<\/strong>\u201d dedi adam. \u201cYak\u0131ndaki bir akaryak\u0131t istasyonunda.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131, g\u00f6zleri keskinle\u015fti:
\u201c\u015eimdi iki se\u00e7ene\u011fi var. Ya hatas\u0131n\u0131 anlayacak\u2026 ya da anlamas\u0131 i\u00e7in yard\u0131m alacak.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

O an fark ettim: Bu bir intikam plan\u0131 de\u011fildi. Bu, benim bir daha asla \u00e7aresiz hissetmemem i\u00e7indi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Geceyi orada ge\u00e7irdim. Bana s\u0131cak \u00e7orba verdiler, temiz k\u0131yafet buldular. Kimse su\u00e7lamad\u0131. Sadece \u015funu s\u00f6ylediler:
\u201cBuradas\u0131n. G\u00fcvendesin.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sabaha kar\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n yan\u0131ma geldi:
\u201cBazen en karanl\u0131k anda bir bankta oturursun ve her \u015fey bitti san\u0131rs\u0131n. Ama bazen o bank, yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n yeridir.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kocam beni arad\u0131 m\u0131?
Evet. Defalarca.
Mesaj att\u0131 m\u0131?
Evet.<\/p>\n

Ama cevap vermedim.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o gece \u015funu \u00f6\u011frendim:
Birinin seni yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rakmas\u0131, senin de\u011fersiz oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermez.
Ama senin aya\u011fa kalkman, onun neyi kaybetti\u011fini g\u00f6sterir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ve o ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u2026
O sadece bana yard\u0131m etmedi.
Bir daha asla kimsenin beni yol kenar\u0131nda b\u0131rakmas\u0131na izin vermeyece\u011fimi \u00f6\u011fretti.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kocamla hararetli bir tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ard\u0131ndan, beni evden yakla\u015f\u0131k 50 kilometre uzakta yol kenar\u0131nda b\u0131rak\u0131p gitti. Ne telefonum vard\u0131, ne c\u00fczdan\u0131m\u2026 Sadece arkas\u0131ndan yank\u0131lanan \u015fu s\u00f6zleri […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4381,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[305,259,356,320,357],"class_list":["post-4379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-duygusal-hikaye","tag-evlilik-krizi","tag-gercek-hayat-hikayesi","tag-hayat-dersi","tag-kadinin-gucu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4379"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4383,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4379\/revisions\/4383"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4381"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}