{"id":4472,"date":"2026-01-03T15:56:14","date_gmt":"2026-01-03T15:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=4472"},"modified":"2026-01-03T15:56:24","modified_gmt":"2026-01-03T15:56:24","slug":"ona-asik-oldugumu-saniyordum-dugun-gecesi-yasananlar-her-seyi-bitirdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/ona-asik-oldugumu-saniyordum-dugun-gecesi-yasananlar-her-seyi-bitirdi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ona A\u015f\u0131k Oldu\u011fumu San\u0131yordum\u2026 D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Gecesi Ya\u015fananlar Her \u015eeyi Bitirdi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/ona-asik-oldugumu-saniyordum-dugun-gecesi-yasananlar-her-seyi-bitirdi\/2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-4473 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/bbs-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"696\" height=\"377\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/bbs-1.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/bbs-1-300x163.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"104\" data-end=\"228\">Foto\u011fraf\u00e7\u0131 havuz kenar\u0131nda birka\u00e7 kare istedi. Damat elimi tuttu ve kula\u011f\u0131ma f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131:<br data-start=\"191\" data-end=\"194\" \/><strong data-start=\"194\" data-end=\"228\">\u201cBana g\u00fcveniyorsun, de\u011fil mi?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"230\" data-end=\"290\">Bir saniye sonra kendimi suyun i\u00e7inde buldum.<br data-start=\"275\" data-end=\"278\" \/>O g\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"292\" data-end=\"342\">\u0130\u015fte tam o anda babam konu\u015ftu:<br data-start=\"322\" data-end=\"325\" \/><strong data-start=\"325\" data-end=\"342\">\u201cK\u0131z\u0131m, gel.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"344\" data-end=\"379\">Ama as\u0131l \u015fok, bundan sonra ya\u015fand\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"400\" data-end=\"668\">Aylarca s\u00fcren haz\u0131rl\u0131klar, umutlar ve hayaller\u2026 Davetiyeler da\u011f\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, gelinlik g\u00fcnler \u00f6ncesinden haz\u0131r edilmi\u015f, salon \u00f6zenle s\u00fcslenmi\u015fti. Herkes i\u00e7in bu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, masallardan f\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131. Ancak d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gecesi ya\u015fananlar, mutlulu\u011fu k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede yerle bir etti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"670\" data-end=\"899\">Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131yla aylar boyunca evlilik hayalleri kurmu\u015ftu. Onu \u00e7evresine <strong data-start=\"751\" data-end=\"801\">\u201c\u015fakac\u0131, e\u011flenceli ama s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bilen biri\u201d<\/strong> olarak anlat\u0131yordu. Oysa d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden aylar \u00f6nce ya\u015fanan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir olay, her \u015feyin habercisi gibiydi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"901\" data-end=\"1110\">Bir g\u00fcn ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn videosu a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Videoda damat, gelini kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n ortas\u0131nda kahkahalar e\u015fli\u011finde havuza at\u0131yordu. Erkek taraf\u0131 g\u00fclerken, gelinin \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 duyuluyordu. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n o an ciddile\u015fmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1112\" data-end=\"1218\"><strong data-start=\"1112\" data-end=\"1159\">\u201cBana bunu yaparsan, seni orada b\u0131rak\u0131r\u0131m,\u201d<\/strong> demi\u015fti.<br data-start=\"1168\" data-end=\"1171\" \/>Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 cevap ise netti: <strong data-start=\"1195\" data-end=\"1218\">\u201cAsla. Bana g\u00fcven.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1220\" data-end=\"1460\">D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc her \u015fey planland\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi ilerledi. Gelin, babas\u0131n\u0131n kolunda salona girdi. Alk\u0131\u015flar y\u00fckseldi, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 akt\u0131. Nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131ld\u0131, imzalar at\u0131ld\u0131, \u201cevet\u201dler s\u00f6ylendi. Herkes art\u0131k bu iki insan\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 birle\u015ftirdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1462\" data-end=\"1703\">Ancak nik\u00e2htan hemen sonra damat, gelinin elinden tutarak kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n aras\u0131ndan ilerledi. Ba\u015fta herkes bunun romantik bir an oldu\u011funu sand\u0131. Foto\u011fraflar \u00e7ekildi, alk\u0131\u015flar s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Ta ki d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alan\u0131n\u0131n hemen yan\u0131ndaki s\u00fcs havuzuna gelene kadar\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1705\" data-end=\"1946\">Bir anda her \u015fey oldu. Gelin ne oldu\u011funu anlayamadan, davetlilerin g\u00f6zleri \u00f6n\u00fcnde <strong data-start=\"1787\" data-end=\"1805\">havuza itildi.<\/strong> Gelinlik saniyeler i\u00e7inde suya g\u00f6m\u00fcld\u00fc. Kahkahalar yerini \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klara b\u0131rakt\u0131. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 donup kald\u0131, baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u201cBu bir \u015faka m\u0131?\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1948\" data-end=\"2116\">Gelin sudan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade her \u015feyi anlat\u0131yordu. Titriyordu. Gelinli\u011fi a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, makyaj\u0131 akm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kimseyi dinlemedi. D\u00f6n\u00fcp yaln\u0131zca tek bir c\u00fcmle s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2118\" data-end=\"2144\"><strong data-start=\"2118\" data-end=\"2144\">\u201cBana g\u00fcven demi\u015ftin.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2146\" data-end=\"2187\">Sonra gelinli\u011fini tutup salonu terk etti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2189\" data-end=\"2400\">D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yar\u0131da kald\u0131. M\u00fczik sustu, pasta kesilmedi, tak\u0131lar yar\u0131m kald\u0131. Gelinin ailesi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fok ya\u015farken, damat taraf\u0131 ya\u015fananlar\u0131 \u201c\u015faka\u201d olarak savunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ancak olay k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede b\u00fcy\u00fck tepki toplad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2402\" data-end=\"2675\">Sosyal medyada bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi, <strong data-start=\"2430\" data-end=\"2463\">\u201cBu \u015faka de\u011fil, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamad\u0131r\u201d<\/strong>, <strong data-start=\"2465\" data-end=\"2515\">\u201cD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc yap\u0131lan bu davran\u0131\u015f bir travmad\u0131r\u201d<\/strong> yorumlar\u0131nda bulundu. Hukuk\u00e7ular ise r\u0131zas\u0131 olmayan bir ki\u015fiye yap\u0131lan bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n <strong data-start=\"2608\" data-end=\"2629\">psikolojik \u015fiddet<\/strong> kapsam\u0131nda de\u011ferlendirilebilece\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2677\" data-end=\"2868\">Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gecesinden sonra eve d\u00f6nmedi\u011fi, ailesinin yan\u0131na gitti\u011fi ve evlilik karar\u0131n\u0131 tamamen g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi konu\u015fuluyor. Yak\u0131n \u00e7evresine ise tek bir c\u00fcmle kurdu\u011fu iddia ediliyor:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2870\" data-end=\"2908\"><strong data-start=\"2870\" data-end=\"2908\">\u201cBen o g\u00fcn evlenmedim\u2026 kurtuldum.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Foto\u011fraf\u00e7\u0131 havuz kenar\u0131nda birka\u00e7 kare istedi. Damat elimi tuttu ve kula\u011f\u0131ma f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131:\u201cBana g\u00fcveniyorsun, de\u011fil mi?\u201d Bir saniye sonra kendimi suyun i\u00e7inde buldum.O g\u00fcl\u00fcyordu. \u0130\u015fte tam [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4474,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[420,421,422],"class_list":["post-4472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-dugun-gecesi","tag-gelin-damat","tag-havuza-atilan-gelin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4472","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4472"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4472\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4476,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4472\/revisions\/4476"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4474"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}