{"id":813,"date":"2025-09-10T19:27:57","date_gmt":"2025-09-10T19:27:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=813"},"modified":"2025-09-10T19:28:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-10T19:28:16","slug":"esinize-yapmaniz-haram-olan-5-sey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/esinize-yapmaniz-haram-olan-5-sey\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015finize Yapman\u0131z Haram Olan 5 \u015eey!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Evlilik, \u0130slam dininde kutsal bir ba\u011f olarak kabul edilir ve e\u015fler birbirine Allah’\u0131n izniyle helal k\u0131l\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak nik\u00e2h akdi, her \u015feyi serbest b\u0131rakmaz. \u00d6zellikle baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar, e\u015fler aras\u0131nda dahi haram k\u0131l\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve bunlar\u0131 bilmek her M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u00e7ift i\u00e7in hayati \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. Peki, evli kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131kla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnah say\u0131lan bu hatalar neler? \u0130\u015fte cevab\u0131…
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1. Regl (Adet) D\u00f6neminde Cinsel \u0130li\u015fki<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Dini H\u00fckm\u00fc:<\/strong>
\nKur’an-\u0131 Kerim’de Bakara Suresi 222. ayette \u015f\u00f6yle buyrulur:
\n“Sana kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ay halini sorarlar. De ki: O, bir eziyettir. Bu sebeple ay hali zaman\u0131nda kad\u0131nlardan uzak durun ve temizleninceye kadar onlara yakla\u015fmay\u0131n.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Neden Haram?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    Bu d\u00f6nemdeki cinsel ili\u015fki, sa\u011fl\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan risklidir ve enfeksiyonlara yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    Ayetle yasaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve bu yasa\u011fa uymamak b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnah kabul edilir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) de bu konuda uyar\u0131larda bulunmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 Gerekenler:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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      E\u015fler, bu d\u00f6nemde sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmal\u0131 ve birbirine anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6stermelidir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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      Cinsel ili\u015fki d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u015fefkat, sevgi s\u00f6zleri ve fiziksel temas (sar\u0131lma, el ele tutu\u015fma) helaldir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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      2. Do\u011fum Sonras\u0131 Kanamas\u0131 (Lohusal\u0131k) D\u00f6neminde Yak\u0131nla\u015fma<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Dini H\u00fckm\u00fc:<\/strong>
      \nLohusal\u0131k (nifas) d\u00f6nemi, do\u011fumdan sonraki 40 g\u00fcn\u00fc kapsayan ve kanaman\u0131n devam etti\u011fi s\u00fcredir. Bu d\u00f6nemde cinsel ili\u015fki, regl d\u00f6nemindekiyle ayn\u0131 h\u00fckme tabidir.<\/p>\n

      Neden Haram?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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        Kad\u0131n bedeni bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te iyile\u015fme a\u015famas\u0131ndad\u0131r ve cinsel ili\u015fki fiziksel zarar verebilir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        Dini olarak temizlik \u015fart\u0131 aran\u0131r. Kanama bitmeden ili\u015fkiye girmek haramd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 Gerekenler:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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          Kanaman\u0131n tamamen bitmesi beklenmeli ve kad\u0131n gus\u00fcl abdesti almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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          E\u015fler, bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te duygusal destekle birbirine ba\u011flanmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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          Di\u011fer \u00d6nemli Yasaklar ve S\u0131n\u0131rlar<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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            Anal \u0130li\u015fki:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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              \u0130slam alimlerinin b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu bunu haram kabul eder. Peygamberimiz (s.a.v.) bunu “zinan\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc” olarak nitelendirmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n

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              Cinsel \u0130li\u015fki S\u0131ras\u0131nda Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 \u0130zlemek veya D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                E\u015fler, birbirine odaklanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek veya pornografik i\u00e7eriklerle ili\u015fkiyi renklendirmek haramd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n

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                E\u015fe Zulmetmek veya Onu A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                  Cinsel ili\u015fki s\u0131ras\u0131nda e\u015fi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak, zorla bir \u015fey yapt\u0131rmak veya onun r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 almamak b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnaht\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                  Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 Helal Olan Davran\u0131\u015flar<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                    Regl d\u00f6neminde cinsel ili\u015fki d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki sevgi g\u00f6sterileri (\u00f6pme, sar\u0131lma).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                    E\u015flerin birbirine g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylemesi ve duygusal yak\u0131nl\u0131k kurmas\u0131.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                    Temizlik \u015fartlar\u0131na uyuldu\u011fu s\u00fcrece normal cinsel ili\u015fki.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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                    Son Uyar\u0131: Bilin\u00e7li Olmak \u00d6nemli<\/strong><\/h3>\n

                    Bir\u00e7ok evli \u00e7ift, bu yasaklar\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmadan g\u00fcnaha girebiliyor. \u00d6zellikle regl ve lohusal\u0131k d\u00f6nemlerindeki yasaklar, sa\u011fl\u0131k ve din\u00ee a\u00e7\u0131dan kritik \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. E\u015flerin bu konular\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in ilmihal kitaplar\u0131na ba\u015fvurmas\u0131 veya g\u00fcvenilir din alimlerine dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n

                    Unutmay\u0131n:<\/strong>\u00a0Allah’\u0131n helal k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlilikte bile s\u0131n\u0131rlar vard\u0131r. Bu s\u0131n\u0131rlara riayet etmek, hem d\u00fcnya hem ahiret saadeti i\u00e7in elzemdir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                    Evlilik, \u0130slam dininde kutsal bir ba\u011f olarak kabul edilir ve e\u015fler birbirine Allah’\u0131n izniyle helal k\u0131l\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak nik\u00e2h akdi, her \u015feyi serbest b\u0131rakmaz. \u00d6zellikle baz\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":815,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[41,38,42,40,39],"class_list":["post-813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-esler-arasi-yasaklar","tag-evlilikte-haramlar","tag-islamda-cinsel-kurallar","tag-lohusalikta-cinsellik","tag-regl-doneminde-iliski"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=813"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":818,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813\/revisions\/818"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/815"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}