{"id":921,"date":"2025-09-13T19:57:46","date_gmt":"2025-09-13T19:57:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/?p=921"},"modified":"2025-09-13T19:57:55","modified_gmt":"2025-09-13T19:57:55","slug":"kizimin-karin-agrisi-ve-gerceklerle-yuzlesmem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/kizimin-karin-agrisi-ve-gerceklerle-yuzlesmem\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n Kar\u0131n A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 ve Ger\u00e7eklerle Y\u00fczle\u015fmem"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a> O Pazartesi sabah\u0131 her \u015fey normal ba\u015flad\u0131. Kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131yordum, k\u0131z\u0131m Elif ise okul i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlan\u0131yordu. Ancak onun y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki solgunluk ve karn\u0131n\u0131 tutu\u015f \u015fekli i\u00e7imi ciddi \u015fekilde endi\u015felendirdi. “Anne, hala \u00e7ok a\u011fr\u0131yor” demesiyle birlikte kalbim yerinden f\u0131rlayacak gibi oldu.
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\nGe\u00e7en haftasonu i\u015f nedeniyle k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 e\u015fim Mehmet’in yan\u0131nda b\u0131rakmak zorunda kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Mehmet, Elif’in \u00fcvey babas\u0131yd\u0131 ve daha \u00f6nce ben i\u015fteyken defalarca ona bakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hi\u00e7bir sorun ya\u015famam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Ta ki o sabaha kadar…<\/p>\n

Elif’in anlatt\u0131klar\u0131 beni derinden sarst\u0131. Cumartesi gecesinden beri s\u00fcren \u015fiddetli kar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 Mehmet’e s\u00f6yledi\u011finde, onun “pizzadan olmu\u015ftur” diyerek ge\u00e7i\u015ftirdi\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendim. \u0130\u00e7imde bir his, hemen harekete ge\u00e7mem gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n

Acil olarak \u00e7ocuk doktorumuz Dr. Zeynep’in klini\u011fine gittik. Dr. Zeynep, Elif’i muayene ettikten sonra y\u00fcz ifadesinin de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini fark ettim. Ultrason iste\u011fiyle birlikte i\u00e7imdeki endi\u015fe daha da artt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ultrason g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ekrana geldi\u011finde odadaki havada aniden de\u011fi\u015fti. Dr. Zeynep’in hem\u015fireyle exchange etti\u011fi endi\u015feli bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. “Ne oldu doktor han\u0131m?” diye sormaktan kendimi alamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Verdi\u011fi yan\u0131t ise adeta beynimde bomba etkisi yaratt\u0131: “Hemen ambulans \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmam\u0131z gerekiyor.”<\/p>\n

O an anlad\u0131m ki k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n kar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 basit bir mide rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fildi. Mehmet’le ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi haftasonunda ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc bir g\u00f6stergesiydi.<\/p>\n

Ambulans gelene kadar ge\u00e7en s\u00fcre hayat\u0131m\u0131n en uzun dakikalar\u0131 oldu. Elif’in y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ac\u0131 ifadesi ve Dr. Zeynep’in ciddi y\u00fcz ifadesi, i\u00e7imi kemiriyordu. Acaba haftasonunda neler ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131? Mehmet k\u0131z\u0131ma ne yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131?<\/p>\n

Hastanede yap\u0131lan tetkikler sonucunda Elif’in i\u00e7 organlar\u0131nda ciddi hasar olu\u015ftu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Doktorlar\u0131n ifadesine g\u00f6re bu durum, fiziksel \u015fiddetin sonucuydu.<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 yazma amac\u0131m, t\u00fcm ebeveynleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6ylediklerini ciddiye almaya davet etmek. Bazen en g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz insanlar bile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za zarar verebilir. L\u00fctfen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n size anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemseyin ve onlar\u0131n s\u00f6zlerini asla hafife almay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Elif \u015fu anda tedavi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ve yava\u015f yava\u015f iyile\u015fiyor. Bizim i\u00e7in zorlu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olsa da, adaletin yerini bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in hukuki s\u00fcre\u00e7leri ba\u015flatt\u0131k. Unutmay\u0131n: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli\u011fi her \u015feyden \u00f6nce gelir.<\/p>\n

Not: Bu ger\u00e7ek bir ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcnden esinlenilmi\u015ftir. \u0130simler ve baz\u0131 detaylar mahremiyeti korumak amac\u0131yla de\u011fi\u015ftirilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

O Pazartesi sabah\u0131 her \u015fey normal ba\u015flad\u0131. Kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131yordum, k\u0131z\u0131m Elif ise okul i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlan\u0131yordu. Ancak onun y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki solgunluk ve karn\u0131n\u0131 tutu\u015f \u015fekli i\u00e7imi ciddi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-921","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=921"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":925,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions\/925"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=921"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=921"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgitarif.com\/iyi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=921"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}